Lately I’ve been…

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Sorry for the lack of updates. Haven’t been doing enough things to have crazy inspirations to write… and… I’ve been lazy :p

Lately I’ve been training for an action movie called “Lady Bloodsport”, which is about female fighters from all around the world coming together at an underground tournament to fight each other in their own martial arts style… I’ve managed to hurt three out of four limbs and I personally think it’s some kind of record ;) (For more on “Lady Bloodsport”, check out the B&E Productions Facebook Page)

IMG_3657Yep, three. I said three. One of my knee has been hurting too. Well… technically both, because they’re both old injuries but thanks to the invention of ice packs, I’m much better. Today I’ll be training with wraps/supports on my wrist, elbow, and knee. If you didn’t know better you’d think I’m about to pull some BMX trick or something.

… On that note … Just realized I’m going to be late for training if I don’t run from my laptop now, sooooo… SEE YA LATER ALLIGATOR!!! :D

 

 

May I propose…

Love

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In my household, being gay was, and is, no big deal. When my brother came out, we hugged him, said we loved him, and that was that…Just for the record, we don’t feel that there is actually anything alternative about our family values…I don’t consider myself just an ally to the LGBT community, I consider myself your family…if anyone, ever, tries to hurt you, I’m going to give them hell…There are people who have said that I’m being brave for being openly supportive of gay marriage, gay adoption, basically of gay rights. But with all due respect I humbly dissent. I’m not being brave. I’m being a decent human being. And I don’t think I should receive an award for that, or for merely stating what I believe to be true, that love is a human experience, not a political statement. However, I acknowledge that sadly we live in a world where not everybody feels the same. My family and I will help the good fight continue until that long awaited moment arrives, when our rights are equal and when the political limits on love have been smashed.

 

Yesterday I saw my friend ‘like’ a FB post of Anne Hathaway talking about gay rights. I have huge respect for those who love on their beloved and stand up for what they believe in, yet may I propose that love is not only loving on someone or something you agree with, but that real love comes when you love on that person regardless of whether you agree with what they stand for or not.

Please be patient and give me till the end of this post if you’re getting agitated and think this is a post about whether homosexuality is right or wrong, this is a post about what I think love is. Yes, you’ll have to brace yourself because I’m going to throw some Bible verses around, but I feel I can only explain my views if I share from my core values.

“You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you… If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? – Matthew 4:43-44, 46-47

A little background information – back in those days, tax collectors were seen as the bad guys, perhaps just like the government of HK these days. My understanding of this passage is that it’s  hard to be good to those you love, even those who you may think are evil do it: corrupt government officials probably still provide for their families, triad bosses may still apologize and ask forgiveness from their spouses, and so on. The real question is: what about the unlovable? What about those you don’t agree with? Continue reading

[What's in the Fridge] – Chicken Springrolls

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Chinese burrito…ish-looking spring rolls. HELLO!

[Recipe at the end of post]

I don’t really know what to call this. It’s mini-burrito-looking-ish springrolls with chicken, mushrooms, and avocados.

We have this grocery problem at home where because of my unstable schedule, we never know if we should stock the fridge. I would spend days at home with no food in the fridge because I’m either too lazy to go shopping, or because I don’t know if I’m actually going to be at home. Sometimes we would stock the fridge and won’t get time to cook until the vegetables have all wilted.

Yesterday as my mom was heading to the supermarket I told her I’d be home for lunch the next day so some veggies would be good. She came home and this happened:

Mom: Hey I bought these fresh mushrooms.

Me: *Immediately pays attention to these special mushrooms she’s making a point about*

Mom: You should eat them ASAP though, I got them on sale…

Me: You mean you got the not-fresh ones that are gonna go bad if I don’t eat it soon, which is why they’re on sale?

Mom: That’s what I meant, just eat them.

So I opened the fridge this morning, having completely forgotten about these what I now call ASAP-mushrooms, and lo and behold! Mushrooms! Too many to finish in one go! CHICKEN! THREE BREASTS!

*Immediate thought: I won’t be home tomorrow to finish all this meat and magic, I mean, ASAP-mushrooms*

That was a cue to actually make brunch and forget about having egg whites and avocados for breakfast. In my mind I knew those avocados are going to rot if I don’t eat them either, so I decided to put everything together and demolish it. We have these springroll sheets sitting in our fridge, which I also know they’re going to make mould babies soon, so…

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Not Again! *Gross alert*

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Me sitting next to the faucet for warm water for my eye with the laptop set up to keep me entertained.

 

STY STY STY STY STY STY STY STY STY STY STY !!!!

Apparently once you’ve had it you’re prone to get it again; and in my case, again and again and again and again. I know some simple home remedies and have an ointment for it and last time I got a sty I was able to keep it under control, which is why this time I only decided to go see a doctor when it got really crazy yesterday. Of course, the one day I decide to go see a doctor it’s a Sunday and the clinic I usually go to is closed – story of my life.

Ah, for those of you who don’t know what sty/styes are: it’s basically an eye infection caused by blocked pores. It’s basically a pimple/acne somewhere on your eye. The ‘head’ of the ‘acne’ is usually along your eyelashes or ON THE INSIDE OF YOUR EYELID. OH MY DAYS I’M GROSSED OUT JUST TALKING ABOUT IT.

My styes have gotten so out of hand before that I’ve had to get a procedure done: it’s where they (warning, gross stuff ahead… guard your gag reflexes) clamp down on your already swollen and in pain eyelid, flip it, and go all out squeezing all the pus out of your infected eyelid. Woot! Partay!

So yes, that’s me. That procedure (the nurses and doctors call it a small operation… oh my days I’m still thinking about pus, are you thinking about pus?) is definitely one of the most painful experiences of my life. That’s why every time my eye gets infected my stress levels are much higher than the seriousness of the sty itself. Obviously stress doesn’t help it at all, and once again, story of my life. Anyway, I went to the doctor’s yesterday to get some new meds and I think I’m my the way to recovery. I think this would be a quicker process if I went to my eye clinic and paid a load of money for a crap load of pain again, but… I think I can do without it this time. Thanks.

By the way, I mentioned home remedies earlier on: If you’re at the beginning of an eye infection, the smartest thing would still be to go see a doctor – if not, find a clean towel or gauze and soak it in warm water, and put it over your eye (please don’t burn your eye). Make sure you’re not using the same part of the towel/gauze as the bacteria may spread and cause a more serious infection. The heat will open up your pores and the infection will subside/drain. I’ve heard that the steam from warm showers/a pot of water would help too; by logic it should, but I haven’t tried it. The other thing you should do on top of this is to go to a pharmacy and tell them you have an eye infection and ask for an ointment for it. It’s probably best to do this if you’ve been prescribed one by a doctor before and ask for the same thing at a pharmacy.

Stay healthy everybody!

My bad

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Hahaha ummm hello, sorry, heh… I’m guessing I should never say this, but I completely forgot about the blog for a week.

I’M SORRY!! Please don’t be mad :p

I spent the last week doing back to back interviews to promote my new drama “Beauty at War” (金枝慾孽貮). I would do a few interviews on the same day and for some we needed two outfits. Basically that means I had LOTS of clothes and shoes and make up and tank tops and socks and water bottle and phone charger and all that stuff to drag all around Hong Kong. It came as a surprise to me when I was COMPLETELY knackered at the end of the second day. Seriously, how do people do it everyday all the time?! I’m telling ya, actresses totally don’t just look pretty and sit in front of the camera for a living.

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Beaty at War // 金枝慾孽貳

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Coming this Monday – April 22, 9:30pm on TVB Jade!

I’ve had some small roles in other Dynasty drama’s here and there, but this is the first time I’ve been part of the main cast. It was such an experience from learning how to stand and speak, to trying not to lose it wearing that costume under the 38C heat in Hengdian, China.   Can you believe I wore the same costume for four to five months? Sexy.

You can watch the trailer here.

 

21st Century Dating

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Welcome to the 21st century.

Some things have changed.

Before I started dating, when my boyfriend and I were still getting to know each other, we knew we liked each other. Why? We texted each other everyday. For hours. To me it’s quite obvious there’s something if there’s a guy I talk to everyday, but one night when I was feeling upset and he called to check up on me, it felt special. Super special. It’s strange when you think about it, because friends used to always talk over the phone anyway – it’s how they stayed in touch. I guess it’s when someone asks you to hang out that made it special. Of course, it still is, but as time goes by, our expectation for human interaction has steadily lowered. I find myself defaulting to texting these days, and I don’t usually like to call unless I have to, or if I know that person well. REALLY WELL.

One day, I was scrapbook-ing and looking at my hand writing when this thought struck my mind like all things that strike, “I don’t even know what my boyfriend’s handwriting looks like!!!” That really weirded me out. Back at school, friends and I would write notes to each other. It made sense to know what your close friends’ handwriting looks like. These days I’ve only seen my own writing in my journal and my mom’s on post-it notes all over the place.

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#SocialMediaFail

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We’ve all seen the overtaggers. They’re annoying. I’m sorry if you’re one of them, but you are being extremely annoying when you do that. They say “a picture paints a thousand words” – that means you don’t have to show me the thousand words.

*If you don’t know what hash tags are, there’s a Wikipedia definition at the end of this post.

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Hunger ‘Games’

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“In Hollywood, I’m obese. I’m considered a fat actress. I eat like a caveman. I’ll be the only actress who doesn’t have anorexia rumors! I’m never going to starve myself for a part. I’m invincible. I don’t want little girls to be like “Oh, I want to look like Katniss, so I’m going to skip dinner!” – Jennifer Lawrence

Meet my new heroine: Jennifer Lawrence.

For a while I couldn’t decide if I liked her or not. I wasn’t sure if she was awesome for being her own crazy self, or if she was just thirsty for attention; but when I saw this quote I admired her. These days it takes a lot of courage for an actress to say something this, whether she eventually succumbs to the pressure to be thin not. Perhaps she can say this because she is Jennifer Lawrence, but I really hope she is Jennifer Lawrence today because she stands up for what she believes.

I’ve been told I am someone who stands up for what I think is right, but when it comes to being thin, I get stung a lot and I back down quite easily. I don’t think I’m fat, but as soon as I say this I get the look that says (or people actually say), “are you serious?! You don’t think you’re fat?!” – and this is where I shut off and start feeling fat and ugly. Well now that I’m writing all this and no one is here to stop me, I’d like to say, yes, I don’t think I’m fat, I don’t think I’m stick-skinny, and those things are really quite different.

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